Nestor
Haddaway famously sings a vocal- “What is
Love?? Whoa whoa!!” But it was wrong on his part not to tell anything
except asking! Hmm..so then, I was being asked by my self to answer this!! Okay!
It seemed a big one to be answered by me! So, I did turn to my all time trusted
Oxford dict for the same. Well! it didn’t stand to my expectations this time :/
. It describes love to be a great sense of affection for some person. Hmm…is it just an affection sentience!!!...I guess, No yar!! I even have affection for you if you were being sent an invitation
to read this piece of writing! Okk fine..I
accept that I don’t have that great philia for you, as I do have for the person
I love. But still, I bet love would be something much bigger than this
affection!..this being just a part of it!
What
is this big thing then?? Hmm… I
myself don’t know about its resolution, but the thing I know is that it’s a
feeling for that one person which I don’t have for any other! Its that I can’t even imagine my life living without
her and want her to be there in every sphere of my life..maybe that’s my
love!! Or maybe when I want to share all
my happiness & lugubriousness with her, that’s my love! I want her to be the source of my happiness.
And when she smiles or when I hear that chuckle laughter of hers, my heart
seems blissful, I guess that can be my love!
Or its that when her small so-called gadde
(people term it better as dimples) make me go gaga! Or is it when i can’t see
her doleful! Also, the feeling to care
for her sounds love. Or its that I want her to be the one whom I can rely
on! Or it can be when I am an
all-excited talking to her! Or may be
when I want to sit beside her and do endless talks averring out whatever comes
to this lil mind, that can be my love!!
Or its when I am true to her, without wangling things up! And when I
can’t stop thinking about her, or when her smile goes on flashing in my head, or when random thoughts coming to this head always end up on her or
when I miss her the minute- she is not there, that can also be my aroha! I want
her to be my strength in every way,…the source of my passion for whom I could
do anything,..to be the push making me more endurable!
It could
be her decency or correctitude, or that good values or her resemblance to
simple things of life, is what I love about her. Or it’s a feeling of being
complete with her as if she is a part of me & having that peace of mind! Ya fir, its when I quarrel with her
& soon after want to conciliate with her back to good terms, as if the
dustup had never happened! My love could also be that I want her to be the one
who understands me, expects from me, orders me, who gives me cue becoming a good
person, who is the first to know my things, who just loves me, who gives me especial names, who laughs with me,.. nd sab
kuch yr!! Its each and every lil thing I love about her...the way she is, is what I have loved!
